Direct3D will not work because that's a Voodoo2-based card and Microsoft decided that they shouldn't work under Windows NT/2000/XP.  Glide will work with the driver that patience indicates.  Additionally some OpenGL programs and games will work provided you use a minigl in the program's or game's folder.  I have found that it's best to use 3Dfx's own minigls here since WickedGL can cause texture memory problems with this card, driver and OS combination.

Just rename a minigl to "opengl32.dll" and put it in the relevant folder.  Delete it again to put the OpenGL back on your primary card.  Get 'em here-
http://www.falconfly.de/minigl.htm
Try either 1.47, 1.48 or 1.49.